How does a
man come to have vairagya
(dispassion)?
A wife
once said to her husband: "Dear, I am very
anxious
about my brother. For the past one week
he has
been thinking of becoming an ascetic, and
has been
busy preparing for that life. He is trying
to reduce
gradually all his desires and wants." The
husband
replied: "Dear, be not anxious about your
brother.
Pie will never become a sannyasin. No one
can become
a sannyasin in that way." "How does
one become
a sannyasin then?" asked the wife.
"Thus"
exclaimed the husband; so saying, he tore
his
flowing dress to pieces, took a piece and tied it
round his
loin, and told his wife that she and all of
her sex
were henceforth mothers to him. He left
the
house, nevermore to return.